The reality is that competition is unavoidable — for all of us — regardless of our personalities and dispositions. Sundays are for showing Christ-like regard for others; the rest of the week is for claw-scratching to the top.In Philippians 4:6-7, Paul says, “do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Paul tells us that prayer is the pathway to guarding our hearts and minds with the peace of God.Parental honor (Ruth 3:5-6, 17; God blesses Ruth’s honoring of her only parental figure left)2.Purposed towards marriage (3:9-10; note: no positive portrayal in Scripture of recreational relationships) 3. Personal character attracts the godly (; focus first on being the right person, not finding the right person)5.Perhaps it was the chance to be the starting point guard. To make matters worse, it doesn't end on graduation day. Musicians competed for top chair positions in the orchestra; actors and actresses competed for lead roles.
31, 2010 ( Introductory Observations of what God blessed in Ruth and Boaz’s relationship:1.If you are supposed to guard your heart in dating, how do you do it?There is only one other verse in the Bible that uses the phrase ‘guard your heart’, and that verse gives us the answer to the question of how to guard your heart in life in general and in dating in particular.-26]- guided mostly by self, youth cultural norms and expectations, with little to no parental involvement, insight, oversight, approval or even advice sought early and during the relationship, though at least meeting and minimally interacting with father and family may occur, often after the couple already has progressed romantically, emotionally, perhaps even physically to some degree- eventually when (if?) a young man settles down to commit to his serious girlfriend, and is at or near marriageable age and the next stage of life, he prepares to propose, and a girl’s parents finally at this point may be informed of his intentions at the end of the process, asking at least for token approval- with little to no input from godly mentors or church leaders sought previously, as the couple makes arrangements for the wedding, final plans include finding a pastor so they can get married, leaving a little time for premarital counseling as a formality since some pastors require it to perform a wedding – a mature relationship of man and woman both under the headship of Christ and the daughter ideally under the loving headship (provision, protection) of her father until given by him at a wedding, at which point her covenant headship and loving leadership is transferred to her husband:1.