Dating advice for men over 40

Take some advice from a gal who has been there, finally figured “the man-thing out,” got married at 47 and now enjoys a stellar relationship with the perfect man…for me. I mean, after all, if every man you meet is unworthy then there is no risk you’ll actually start dating or get in a relationship!There are two things you can do that will immediately improve your experience with men: 1. Know what you want and must have, and make sure it’s the “Grownup You” doing the picking; not the 18-year-old who still expects all kinds of wacky things that no longer matter and wouldn’t make you happy anyway. Aren’t your “quirks” what you want men to love about you? • How does this belief impact your actions (or inaction), and how is that affecting your outcomes? Yep, that’s a surefire way to avoid ever being hurt or rejected.Data shows that if a man is attracted to you, he will still write back, regardless of your age.Women receive 3x the number of messages men receive so just by landing in his inbox you have a better chance at success than sitting around like the damsel in distress waiting to be saved by prince charming.

It’s important that someone educates you all on the ugly truths behind online dating after 40.

I am told that women want to settle down and have kids, etc., but their actions seem to be to the contrary.

At singles events, women come in groups and are reluctant to talk to men.

Updates: 02/17/2015For most people, especially women, dating in their 40s or 50s is nowhere near as easy as when they are 25.

Actually, relationships built in their 40s, 50s and beyond are far more fulfilling than any they had in their earlier years.